He Stopped Texting :-(

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Dear Sasha,

I met a boy at the Oratory dance and we danced all night. I really liked him and I gave him my number. But he has stopped texting me. I am scared to text him. What should I do?




This is the worst thing a guy can do.

You seem to really like this guy and it’s clear you had made some sort of a connection with him. If I were you, I would ask him what he is feeling. Sometimes, the way a guy feels about a girl when he first meets her is “in the heat of the moment”-which can be both upsetting and confusing. Also, in most cases, the way a guy defines a relationship is different than the way a girl does. So, if I were you I would ask him to define what you guys are. Ask him where his feelings are and if he intends on seriously continuing the relationship. It might seem silly or scary to confront him at first but trust me, it is better to figure it all out as early as you can. And if he does not feel the same way, it’s okay! There are plenty of fish in the sea! You can do it, good luck!



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